Valerie "Val" Hathaway

Female 1920 - 2013  (93 years)


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  • Name Valerie "Val" Hathaway 
    Nickname Val 
    Born 14 Sep 1920  London, Middlesex, England Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Gender Female 
    Name Valerie Johnstone 
    Name Change From Between 1921 and 1930 
    Valerie Johnstone 
    • By Adoption.
    Birth Registration Between 1 Jan 1921 and 31 Mar 1921  Marylebone Registration District, Middlesex, England Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Vol. 1a, p. 841 
    • Valerie Johnstone, mother maiden name Mackay, was born.
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      From Birth Certificate #19

      Valerie, daughter of Sybul Grace Stewart Johnstone, formerly MacKay, of 10 Oxford Terace, Paddington, was born Fourteenth September 1920 at 10 Northumberland Street,
      Informant: Sybil Johnstone, Mother, of The Hut, Thames Ditton, Surrey.
      Registered : Twenty-first January 1921 by A J Read, Registrar; Hugh Stokes, Superintendent.
    Valerie Hathaway (nee Johnstone Birth Certificate
    Valerie Hathaway (nee Johnstone Birth Certificate
    Immigration 22 May 1921  New York City, New York County, New York Find all individuals with events at this location 
    • Ancestry.com. New York, U.S., Arriving Passenger and Crew Lists (including Castle Garden and Ellis Island), 1820-1957
      Name       Valerie Johnstone
      Gender       Female
      Ethnicity/ Nationality       English
      Marital Status       Single
      Age       7/12
      Birth Date       abt 1920
      Birth Place       England
      Other Birth Place       London
      Last Known Residence       London, England
      Departure Port       Southampton
      Arrival Date       22 May 1921
      Arrival Port       New York, New York, USA
      Residence Place       England
      Final Destination       N. Y. C., New York
      Years in US       Permanently
      Citizenship Intention       Yes
      Person in US       Anglo
      Ship Name       Aquitania

      Johnstone, Valerie, age 7 months, Female Single, Infant, English, Last address London, By National Adoption Society, London, Final destination, New York City, to Anglo-American Adoption Society, NYC, born London.
    1930 Census 23 May 1930  Harrison, Westchester County, New York Find all individuals with events at this location 
    • ED 162, sheet 12A
      Hill Top Place
      Hathaway, Stewart    Head  M  W  47  Md  29   NJ         NY  WI          Banker - Bank
      ---, Helen V               Wife   F  W  41  Md  22   NE         MA  IL
      ---, Valerie           Ad. Dau   F  W    9  S           England  NJ  NE 1921
      ... several servants
    Died 28 Dec 2013  Westwood, Norfolk County, Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Obituary 3 Jan 2014  Lincoln, Middlesex County, Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Lincoln Journal 
    • Valerie Tew Obituary

      Valerie Hathaway Tew, of Fox Hill Village, passed away peacefully on December 28, 2013, at age 93.

      Val led an active life, driven by curiosity and a sense of adventure that included summer cruises on the New England coast with her family and several trips to Europe with her husband and friends.

      Born on September 14, 1920, she grew up in Rye, New York, the daughter of Helen and Stewart Hathaway.

      She attended Miss Halls School in Pittsfield, Massachusetts, and graduated from Vassar College in 1942.

      She married Lt. John B. Tew a month later in Vero Beach, Florida, where they had met.

      Following Johns service in World War II, the couple settled in Lincoln, Massachusetts, where they raised their five children. John worked as a portfolio manager at Scudder, Stevens & Clark in Boston, ultimately becoming a partner in the firm. The family enjoyed skiing with friends at Cannon Mountain in New Hampshire, spring visits to Vero Beach, Florida, and summers in Osterville, Massachusetts.

      As their children grew, married, and had their own children, generations would return for weeks together in Osterville. Val and John enjoyed playing golf together and were mixed pair champions at both the Wianno Club in Osterville and the Concord Country Club in Concord, Massachusetts.

      Val took particular pride in growing flowers and creating flower arrangements for St. Annes-in-the-Field Church in Lincoln and for Bostons Museum of Fine Arts, of which she was a member. Just as she loved to grow her own, she was an inveterate roadside wildflower picker, sometime cottage rose pruner/thief and rescuer of bulldozed day lilies.

      In 1976, after his retirement, John and Val built a retirement home in Osterville. On a sailing trip in 1982 John had a stroke, and Val devoted herself to his care with love and humor until his death twelve years later. Val remained in Osterville, where she enjoyed visits from her children and grandchildren.

      Keeping up with local issues and being a devoted reader of books and newspapers, she was a consummate conversationalist and avid correspondent. To relax and reflect, she loved to take her morning coffee and the newspaper to Dowses Beach overlooking Nantucket Sound, where she and John had spent so much time together.

      Val started living part-time at Fox Hill Village, a retirement community in Westwood, Massachusetts, in 2002, splitting her time between Westwood and Osterville. Val's interest in new places never waned. At age 80 she joined her four former Vassar roommates on a trip to southern France, where they spent two weeks in a villa, enjoying day trips with Val as the designated driver. At age 87, she and some of her children drove around northern California, seeing the vineyards, redwoods and coastline, and flying silently past Mount Shasta in her first hot air balloon ride.

      Val is survived by her five children: James Tew (Junie), Hathaway Brewster (Galen), David Tew (Margaret), John Tew, and Laurie Tew (Judy Bernstein), ten grandchildren and five great-grandchildren.

      The family would like to express its deepest thanks to the staff at Clark House Nursing Center at Fox Hill Village for their loving care in Vals final days. A memorial service will be held in the summer at St. Peters Episcopal Church in Osterville. Donations in Valerie Tews memory may be sent to St. Peters Episcopal Church, 421 Wianno Ave., Osterville, MA 02655.
    Person ID I95266  New England Hall Families Master Tree
    Last Modified 18 Aug 2023 

    Family John Bechtel Tew,   b. 19 Apr 1916, Akron, Summit County, Ohio Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 18 May 1994, Indian River County, Florida Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 78 years) 
    Married 25 Jul 1942  Rye, Westchester County, New York Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Marriage Announcement 26 Jul 1942  New York, New York County, New York Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Daily News 
    • Society by Nancy Randolph

      One of the most fashionable wedding yesterday was that of pretty Valerie Hathaway and John Bechtel Tew. The ceremonty took place in Christ's Church in Rye, where the bride's parents, Mr. and Mrs. Stewart Southworth Hathaway, make their home.

      Val wore a crisp white taffeta gown, with lace bodice and lace sleeves, and a frothy tulle veil.

      Anne Munger, her maid of honor, and the bridesmaids, Hope Talcott, Joan Morgan, Margaret Lukens and Genevieve Hart, wore identical frocks of pale green net, with wreates of flowers in their hair.

      His Dad Best Man at Hathaway-Tew Wedding

      J. DInsmore Tew was best man for his son. Everett A. Black, Franklin Smith, John W. Horner Jr., Wells Morss, Robert W. Scott and Livingston Carroll were ushers.

      Following the ceremony, there was a reception at the Rye home of the bride's parents.

      The bride attended Miss Hewitt's classes and Miss Hall's School. She went on to Vassar after her debut and was graduated last moth. She is a member of the Junior League.

      Val is a niece of the Dame of Sarak (Mrs. Sybil Hathaway). hereditary rule of the Island of Sark in the English Channel. The island has been taken over by the Germans. Her husband, Robert W. Hathaway, whose title is Seigneur of Sark, is a brother of Val's father.
    Children 
     1. H. Tew
    Last Modified 18 Aug 2023 
    Family ID F36901  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

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    Link to Google MapsBorn - 14 Sep 1920 - London, Middlesex, England Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsBirth Registration - Vol. 1a, p. 841 - Between 1 Jan 1921 and 31 Mar 1921 - Marylebone Registration District, Middlesex, England Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsImmigration - 22 May 1921 - New York City, New York County, New York Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google Maps1930 Census - 23 May 1930 - Harrison, Westchester County, New York Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsMarried - 25 Jul 1942 - Rye, Westchester County, New York Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsMarriage Announcement - Daily News - 26 Jul 1942 - New York, New York County, New York Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsDied - 28 Dec 2013 - Westwood, Norfolk County, Massachusetts Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsObituary - Lincoln Journal - 3 Jan 2014 - Lincoln, Middlesex County, Massachusetts Link to Google Earth
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  • Notes 
    • She was an adopted daughter of Stewart Southworth Hathaway and Helen Viles.