Donald Andrew Hall, Jr.

Donald Andrew Hall, Jr.

Male 1928 - 2018  (89 years)

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  • Name Donald Andrew Hall 
    Suffix Jr. 
    Born 20 Sep 1928  New Haven, New Haven County, Connecticut Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Gender Male 
    Group Descendant of Revolutionary War Veteran 
    • DAR or SAR Eligible Descendant of a Revolutionary War Veteran
    Group Famous Historical Figure 
    • Famous People
    Group Halls of Guilford - DNA Family ? 
    • Descendants of William Hall and Esther of Guilford, Connecticut
    FindaGrave Memorial ID 190841293 
    1930 Census 2 May 1930  Hamden, New Haven County, Connecticut Find all individuals with events at this location 
    • ED 141, sheet 75A?
      28 Coram St
      Hall, Donald R        Head  M  W  26          Md  23   CT   CT  CT   Credit Manager - Dairy
      ---, Lucy M            Wife   F  W  27          Md  24    NH  NH  NH
      ---, Donald R          Son   M  W    1 6/12  S            CT   CT  NH
      Wells, Caroline  Boarder  F  W   25         S            NH  NH  NH
    1940 Census 3 Apr 1940  Hamden, New Haven County, Connecticut Find all individuals with events at this location 
    • ED 5-57, sheet 2A
      160 Ardmore St
      Hall, Donald A.       Head  M  W  36  Md   Connecticut        1935: Same Place  Controler of Brock Hall Diary - Private
      ---, Lucy W.           Wife   F  W  36  Md   New Hampshire        "
      ---, Donald A. (Jr.)  Son   M  W  11  S      Connecticut             "
    Occupation From Jun 2006 to 2007  Wilmot, Merrimack County, New Hampshire Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Poet Laureate of the United States 
    Died 23 Jun 2018  Wilmot, Merrimack County, New Hampshire Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Obituary Aft 23 Jun 2018  New London, Merrimack County, New Hampshire Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Chadwick Funeral and Cremation Service 
    Donald Andrew Hall, Jr. (1928-2018)
    Donald Andrew Hall, Jr. (1928-2018)
    Obituary 24 Jun 2018  New York, New York County, New York Find all individuals with events at this location 
    New York Times 
    • Donald Hall, a Poet Laureate of the Rural Life, Is Dead at 89
      By David Kirby

      Donald Hall, a former poet laureate of the United States who found a universe of meaning in the apples, ox carts and ordinary folk of his beloved rural New England, died on Saturday at his home in Wilmot, N.H. He was 89.

      His death was announced by his literary agent, Wendy Strothman. He had overcome cancer, first diagnosed in 1989, beating the very odds of survival that he had given himself years ago.

      Mr. Hall was one of the leading poets of his generation, frequently mentioned in the company of Robert Bly, James Wright and Galway Kinnell. In evoking a bucolic New England past and expressing a deep veneration of nature, he used simple and direct language, though often to surreal effect.

      "Hall has long been placed in the Frostian tradition of the plainspoken rural poet," Billy Collins, another American poet laureate, wrote in The Washington Post in April 2006, two months before Mr. Hall himself was given the post.

      Since 1975, Mr. Hall had lived on a New Hampshire farm that had been in his family for generations. Growing up in suburban Hamden, Conn., he had spent his childhood summers at the homestead and written his first poems there, and he described his return as both a homecoming and a "coming home to the place of language."

      Mr. Hall's poems often evoke not only place but also an almost geologic sense of time. In "Names of Horses," he writes:

      For a hundred and fifty years, in the pasture of dead horses,
      roots of pine trees pushed through the pale curves of your ribs,
      yellow blossoms flourished above you in autumn, and in winter
      frost heaved your bones in the ground '97 old toilers, soil makers.


      He was a staggeringly prolific writer who chose freelance work over teaching '97 a decision, as Mr. Collins put it, "to detach himself from academic life, with its slow but steady intravenous drip of a salary."

      Mr. Hall was a memoirist, an essayist and the author of textbooks and children's books. A lifelong Boston Red Sox fan, he wrote two books about baseball, including "Dock Ellis in the Country of Baseball" (1976), a lyrical portrait of both the game and the subject that was written with Mr. Ellis, a flamboyant former pitcher for the Pirates and Yankees. ("In the country of baseball," Mr. Hall wrote, "time is the air we breathe, and the wind swirls us backward and forward, until we seem so reckoned in time and seasons that all time and all seasons become the same.")

      For 23 years Mr. Hall was married to the poet Jane Kenyon, who died in 1995, and he paid moving tribute to her and their marriage in the collections "Without" (1998) and "The Painted Bed" (2002).

      But the bulk of his poetry over a 60-year career emphasizes the cycle of life as it plays out in the natural world and those who live in it, though often in a way with which urban readers could identify. In his 1977 poem "Ox Cart Man," an ode to persistence and practicality, Mr. Hall describes how a farmer loads his potatoes into a cart and walks beside his ox to market, where he sells the potatoes.

      When the cart is empty he sells the cart.
      When the cart is sold he sells the ox,
      harness and yoke, and walks
      home, his pockets heavy
      with the year's coin for salt and taxes,
      and at home by fire's light in November cold
      stitches new harness
      for next year's ox in the barn,
      and carves the yoke, and saws planks
      building the cart again.

      Mr. Hall came of age as a poet in the late 1940s and early '50s, when the dominant poetic trend was toward a combination of formal structures and a sophisticated yet conversational style. Its leading proponent was W. H. Auden, who had come to the United States in 1939 and was naturalized in 1946. Auden returned to England in the late 1950s, but his influence on his American contemporaries as well as the younger poets of his day, like Mr. Hall, was incalculable.

      Mr. Hall's first collection, the tightly structured "Exiles and Marriages" (1955), is grounded in strict rhymes and meters. As he assembled the book, though, he also took up arms as an editor in the so-called "War of the Anthologies," in which two influential poetry compilations were at total odds with each other.

      Mr. Hall's anthology, "The New Poets of England and America" (1957), edited with the poets Robert Pack and Louis Simpson, solidified and furthered the Audenesque mode. It embodies the best of the Academic Poets, so called because many of them held teaching posts at colleges and universities but, more important, because of the button-down formalism of their verse.

      The work of the academics '97 among them Anthony Hecht, John Hollander, Donald Justice, May Swenson and Richard Wilbur '97 varies greatly, but it shares an allegiance to the standards of the traditional well-made poem as championed by T. S. Eliot and John Crowe Ransom.

      Across the divide was a second anthology published three years later, Donald Allen's "The New American Poetry, 1945-1960," showcasing experimental and avant-garde poets like John Ashbery, Robert Creeley, Allen Ginsberg and Amiri Baraka (formerly known as LeRoi Jones).

      Each of these radically different books pretended, as their titles suggest, to speak for an entire generation. Notably, neither shared a single poet. And the chasm between them has defined the dominant schools of American poetry ever since.

      Mr. Hall met Ms. Kenyon while teaching at the University of Michigan, and they married in 1972. Three years later they moved to Eagle Pond Farm, his grandparents' former home in Wilmot, in south-central New Hampshire. The house was built in 1803 and bought in 1865 by Mr. Hall's great-grandfather, and Mr. Hall continued to write there in the same first-floor room in which he slept and first began writing poems as a boy.

      Mr. Hall and Ms. Kenyon were profiled and interviewed at the house by Bill Moyers in an Emmy Award-winning PBS documentary, "Donald Hall and Jane Kenyon: A Life Together," broadcast in 1993. By then Mr. Hall was being treated for cancer; it had been discovered in his colon in 1989, and by 1992 it had spread to his liver.

      At the time of the documentary the cancer had gone into remission, but Mr. Hall was fatalistic in the film, saying the odds were against his living another 10 years. A year later, in 1994, Ms. Kenyon learned she had leukemia.

      Mr. Hall made her illness and death at 47 the subject of "Without," a collection of poems published in 1998. A second volume dedicated to Ms. Kenyon, "The Painted Bed," appeared in 2002.

      In "Last Days," a poem in "Without," Mr. Hall describes how he and Ms. Kenyon chose the poems for "Otherwise," her posthumous collection. Then,

      . . . he saw how weak she felt,
      and said maybe not now; maybe
      later. Jane shook her head. "Now," she said.
      "We have to finish it now."
      Later, as she slid exhausted into sleep,
      she said, "Wasn't that fun? To work together? Wasn't that fun?"


      Donald Andrew Hall Jr. was born on Sept. 20, 1928, in New Haven, the only child of Donald and Lucy (Wells) Hall. Mr. Hall wrote in his memoir, "Unpacking the Boxes," that his father had been desperately unhappy in the family dairy business and had insisted that his son follow his own desires. Thus, he wrote, "at fourteen I decided to spend my life writing poetry."

      His talent was soon recognized, and at 16 he was accepted to pursue poetry at the Bread Loaf Writers' Conference in Vermont while attending Phillips Exeter Academy in New Hampshire. Afterward he enrolled at Harvard, where he earned a bachelor's degree in 1951, graduating magna cum laude.

      In a 1983 essay, "Poetry and Ambition," Mr. Hall began it by saying, "I see no reason to spend your life writing poems unless your goal is to write great poems." He went on to assail much of the poetry world, finding mediocrity there, or what he calls the "McPoem."

      "We write and publish the McPoem '97 ten billion served '97 which becomes our contribution to the history of literature."

      And every year, Mr. Hall wrote, "Ronald McDonald takes the Pulitzer."

      Mr. Hall never did win that prize, though he was a finalist for it in 1989, for the book-length poem "The One Day," which received the National Book Critics Circle Award.

      Mr. Hall's poetic ambition can be seen in his diligent revisions; even after his reputation had been thoroughly established, he would send a manuscript to 10 other poets and then rework it according to their suggestions. Robert Bly said that he and Mr. Hall observed "the 48-hour rule": If one sent a poem, the other would have to write back within 48 hours.

      In addition to his selected poems, Mr. Hall's notable collections include "Exiles and Marriages" (1955), which earned the Academy of American Poets Lamont Poetry Selection, and "The Happy Man (1986), winner of the Lenore Marshall Poetry Prize.

      He also wrote a critical biography of the sculptor Henry Moore and a study of the poet Marianne Moore. Of his many children's books, "Ox-Cart Man" (1979), illustrated by Barbara Cooney, won the prestigious Caldecott Medal.

      He was also the author of short stories, plays and memoirs, including "The Best Day the Worst Day: Life with Jane Kenyon" (2005), "Their Ancient Glittering Eyes" (1992) and "Life Work" (1993). He served as poetry editor of The Paris Review from 1953 to 1962.

      Baseball remained a passion. In an introduction to an anthology edited by Peter H. Gordon, "Diamonds Are Forever" (1989), Mr. Hall wrote: "It is by baseball, and not by other American sports, that our memories bronze themselves. By baseball we join hands with the long line of forefathers and with the dead."

      His other honors include two Guggenheim fellowships, the Poetry Society of America's Robert Frost Silver medal and the Ruth Lilly Prize for poetry. He was the United States poet laureate for 2006-7.

      In 2011, he received a National Medal of Arts from President Barack Obama in a White House ceremony. It is the highest award given to artists and art patrons by the United States government.

      Mr. Hall's first marriage, to the former Kirby Thompson, ended in divorce in 1969. His survivors include two children from that marriage, Philippa Smith and Andrew Hall; five grandchildren; and one great-grandchild.

      Mr. Hall confronted mortality in both prose and poetry. In the memoir "Life Work" he wrote with urgency and passion about his surgery for liver cancer and how the words "life" and "work" and "love" had become interchangeable in his mind.

      And in "Affirmation," the final poem in "The Painted Bed," his collection dedicated to Ms. Kenyon, Mr. Hall catalogs life's insults yet concludes:

      If a new love carries us
      past middle age, our wife will die
      at her strongest and most beautiful.
      New women come and go. All go.
      The pretty lover who announces
      that she is temporary
      is temporary. The bold woman,
      middle-aged against our old age,
      sinks under an anxiety she cannot withstand.
      Another friend of decades estranges himself
      in words that pollute thirty years.
      Let us stifle under mud at the pond's edge
      and affirm that it is fitting
      and delicious to lose everything.
    Donald Andrew Hall, Jr. (1928-2018)
    Donald Andrew Hall, Jr. (1928-2018)
    Donald Hall in 2006 outside his home in Wilmot, N.H., on a farm that has been in his family for generations.
    Credit: Bob LaPree for The New York Times
    Donald Andrew Hall, Jr. (1928-2018)
    Donald Andrew Hall, Jr. (1928-2018)
    Mr. Hall in his New Hampshire home in 2007. Much of his poetry focused on rural life in New England.
    Credit: Tony Cenicola/The New York Times
    Donald Andrew Hall, Jr. (1928-2018)
    Donald Andrew Hall, Jr. (1928-2018)
    Mr. Hall received a National Medal of Arts from President Barack Obama in 2011.
    Credit: Charles Dharapak/Associated Press
    Buried 30 Jun 2018  Proctor Cemetery, Andover, Merrimack County, New Hampshire Find all individuals with events at this location 
    • A second FindaGrave Memorial exists. 176530100.
    Person ID I13361  New England Hall Families Master Tree
    Last Modified 29 May 2020 

    Father Donald Andrew Hall, Sr.,   b. 6 Dec 1903, Whitneyville, New Haven County, Connecticut Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 22 Dec 1955, Hamden, New Haven County, Connecticut Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 52 years) 
    Mother Lucy Martha Wells,   b. 23 Apr 1903, Wilmot, Merrimack County, New Hampshire Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 24 Mar 1994  (Age 90 years) 
    Alt. Marriage 12 Jun 1926  Maine Find all individuals with events at this location 
    • Ancestry.com. Maine, Marriage Index, 1892-1985
      Name:      Donald A Hall
      Gender:      Male
      Marriage Date:      19 Jun 1926
      Marriage Place:      Maine, USA
      Residence Place:      Auburnham, Massachusetts
      Spouse Name:      Lucy M Wells
      Spouse Gender:      Female
      Spouse Residence Place:      Lisbon, Maine
    Married 10 Sep 1927  Wilmot, Merrimack County, New Hampshire Find all individuals with events at this location 
    • Ancestry,com. New Hampshire, Marriage and Divorce Records, 1659-1947
      Name:      Donald Andrew Hall of Whitneyville, Conn.; Credit & Sales Manager
      Gender:      Male
      Race:      White
      Marriage Age:      23
      Birth Year:      abt 1904
      Birth Place:      Whitneyville, Connecticut
      Father:      Henry F Hall of Whitneyvill, age 51, Dairy Business, b. Whitneyville.
      Mother:      Augusta D Wueslefeld of Whitneyville, CT; age 52, b. New haven, CT
      1st marriage

      Spouse:      Lucy Martha Wells of Wilmot, NH; Teaching
      Gender:      Female
      Race:      White
      Marriage Age:      24
      Birth Year:      abt 1903
      Birth Place:      Wilmot, New Hampshire
      Father:      Wesley S Wells of Wilmot, age 51, Farmer, b. Danbury, NH
      Mother:      Kate F Keneston of Wilmot, age 48, b. Wilmot.
      1st marriage

      Record Type:      Marriage
      Intentions: 3 Sep 1927
      Marriage Date:      10 Sep 1927
      Marriage Place:      Wilmot, New Hampshire, USA
      Married by Luther M Keneston of Wilmot, Clergyman.
    Family ID F6648  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 1 K. Thompson 
    Children 
     1. P. Hall
     2. A. Hall
    Last Modified 26 Jun 2018 
    Family ID F6650  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 2 Jane Kenyon,   b. 23 May 1947, Ann Arbor, Washtenaw County, Michigan Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 22 Apr 1995, Wilmot, Merrimack County, New Hampshire Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 47 years) 
    Married Apr 1972 
    Last Modified 26 Jun 2018 
    Family ID F6649  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

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    Link to Google MapsBorn - 20 Sep 1928 - New Haven, New Haven County, Connecticut Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google Maps1930 Census - 2 May 1930 - Hamden, New Haven County, Connecticut Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google Maps1940 Census - 3 Apr 1940 - Hamden, New Haven County, Connecticut Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsOccupation - Poet Laureate of the United States - From Jun 2006 to 2007 - Wilmot, Merrimack County, New Hampshire Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsDied - 23 Jun 2018 - Wilmot, Merrimack County, New Hampshire Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsObituary - Chadwick Funeral and Cremation Service - Aft 23 Jun 2018 - New London, Merrimack County, New Hampshire Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsObituary - New York Times - 24 Jun 2018 - New York, New York County, New York Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsBuried - 30 Jun 2018 - Proctor Cemetery, Andover, Merrimack County, New Hampshire Link to Google Earth
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    Donald Andrew Hall, Jr. (1928-2018)
    Donald Andrew Hall, Jr. (1928-2018)
    Donald Andrew Hall, Jr. (1928-2018)
    Donald Andrew Hall, Jr. (1928-2018)
    Donald Hall in 2006 outside his home in Wilmot, N.H., on a farm that has been in his family for generations.
    Credit: Bob LaPree for The New York Times
    Donald Andrew Hall, Jr. (1928-2018)
    Donald Andrew Hall, Jr. (1928-2018)

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  • Notes 
    • From FindaGrave:

      At eighty-seven, I am solitary. I live by myself on one floor of the 1803 farmhouse where my family has lived since the Civil War. After my grandfather died, my grandmother Kate lived here alone. Her three daughters visited her. In 1975, Kate died at ninety-seven, and I took over. Forty-odd years later, I spend my days alone in one of two chairs. From an overstuffed blue chair in my living room I look out the window at the unpainted old barn, golden and empty of its cows and of Riley the horse. I look at a tulip; I look at snow. In the parlor's mechanical chair, I write these paragraphs and dictate letters. I also watch television news, often without listening, and lie back in the enormous comfort of solitude. People want to come visit, but mostly I refuse them, preserving my continuous silence. Linda comes two nights a week. My two best male friends from New Hampshire, who live in Maine and Manhattan, seldom drop by. A few hours a week, Carole does my laundry and counts my pills and picks up after me. I look forward to her presence and feel relief when she leaves. Now and then, especially at night, solitude loses its soft power and loneliness takes over. I am grateful when solitude returns.

      Born in 1928, I was an only child. During the Great Depression, there were many of us, and Spring Glen Elementary School was eight grades of children without siblings. From time to time I made a friend during childhood, but friendships never lasted long. Charlie Axel liked making model airplanes out of balsa wood and tissue. So did I, but I was clumsy and dripped cement onto wing paper. His models flew. Later, I collected stamps, and so did Frank Benedict. I got bored with stamps. In seventh and eighth grade, there were girls. I remember lying with Barbara Pope on her bed, fully clothed and apart while her mother looked in at us with anxiety. Most of the time, I liked staying alone after school, sitting in the shadowy living room. My mother was shopping or playing bridge with friends; my father added figures in his office; I daydreamed.

      In summer, I left my Connecticut suburb to hay with my grandfather, on this New Hampshire farm. I watched him milk seven Holsteins morning and night. For lunch I made myself an onion sandwich'97a thick slice between pieces of Wonder Bread. I've told about this sandwich before.

      At fifteen, I went to Exeter for the last two years of high school. Exeter was academically difficult and made Harvard easy, but I hated it'97five hundred identical boys living two to a room. Solitude was scarce, and I labored to find it. I took long walks alone, smoking cigars. I found myself a rare single room and remained there as much as I could, reading and writing. Saturday night, the rest of the school sat in the basketball arena, deliriously watching a movie. I remained in my room in solitary pleasure.

      At college, dormitory suites had single and double bedrooms. For three years, I lived in one bedroom crowded with everything I owned. During my senior year, I managed to secure a single suite: bedroom and sitting room and bath. At Oxford, I had two rooms to myself. Everybody did. Then I had fellowships. Then I wrote books. Finally, to my distaste, I had to look for a job. With my first wife'96people married young back then; we were twenty and twenty-three'96I settled in Ann Arbor, teaching English literature at the University of Michigan. I loved walking up and down in the lecture hall, talking about Yeats and Joyce or reading aloud the poems of Thomas Hardy and Andrew Marvell. These pleasures were hardly solitary, but at home I spent the day in a tiny attic room, working on poems. My extremely intelligent wife was more mathematical than literary. We lived together and we grew apart. For the only time in my life, I cherished social gatherings: Ann Arbor's culture of cocktail parties. I found myself looking forward to weekends, to crowded parties that permitted me distance from my marriage. There were two or three such occasions on Friday and more on Saturday, permitting couples to migrate from living room to living room. We flirted, we drank, we chatted'96without remembering on Sunday what we said Saturday night.

      After sixteen years of marriage, my wife and I divorced.

      For five years I was alone again, but without the comfort of solitude. I exchanged the miseries of a bad marriage for the miseries of bourbon. I dated a girlfriend who drank two bottles of vodka a day. I dated three or four women a week, occasionally three in a day. My poems slackened and stopped. I tried to think that I lived in happy license. I didn't.

      Jane Kenyon was my student. She was smart, she wrote poems, she was funny and frank in class. I knew she lived in a dormitory near my house, so one night I asked her to housesit while I attended an hour-long meeting. (In Ann Arbor, it was the year of breaking and entering.) When I came home, we went to bed. We enjoyed each other, libertine liberty as much as pleasures of the flesh. Later I asked her to dinner, which in 1970 always included breakfast. We saw each other once a week, still dating others, then twice a week, then three or four times a week, and saw no one else. One night, we spoke of marriage. Quickly we changed the subject, because I was nineteen years older and, if we married, she would be a widow so long. We married in April, 1972. We lived in Ann Arbor three years, and in 1975 left Michigan for New Hampshire. She adored this old family house.

      For almost twenty years, I woke before Jane and brought her coffee in bed. When she rose, she walked Gus the dog. Then each of us retreated to a workroom to write, at opposite ends of our two-story house. Mine was the ground floor in front, next to Route 4. Hers was the second floor in the rear, beside Ragged Mountain's old pasture. In the separation of our double solitude, we each wrote poetry in the morning. We had lunch, eating sandwiches and walking around without speaking to each other. Afterward, we took a twenty-minute nap, gathering energy for the rest of the day, and woke to our daily fuck. Afterward I felt like cuddling, but Jane's climax released her into energy. She hurried from bed to workroom.

      For several hours afterward, I went back to work at my desk. Late in the afternoon, I read aloud to Jane for an hour. I read Wordsworth's "Prelude," Henry James's "The Ambassadors" twice, the Old Testament, William Faulkner, more Henry James, seventeenth-century poets. Before supper I drank a beer and glanced at The New Yorker while Jane cooked, sipping a glass of wine. Slowly she made a delicious dinner' - maybe veal cutlets with mushroom-and-garlic gravy, maybe summer's asparagus from the bed across the street' - then asked me to carry our plates to the table while she lit the candle. Through dinner we talked about our separate days.

      Summer afternoons we spent beside Eagle Pond, on a bite-sized beach among frogs, mink, and beaver. Jane lay in the sun, tanning, while I read books in a canvas sling chair. Every now and then, we would dive into the pond. Sometimes, for an early supper, we broiled sausage on a hibachi. After twenty years of our remarkable marriage, living and writing together in double solitude, Jane died of leukemia at forty-seven, on April 22, 1995.

      Now it is April 22, 2016, and Jane has been dead for more than two decades. Earlier this year, at eighty-seven, I grieved for her in a way I had never grieved before. I was sick and thought I was dying. Every day of her dying, I stayed by her side' - a year and a half. It was miserable that Jane should die so young, and it was redemptive that I could be with her every hour of every day. Last January I grieved again, this time that she would not sit beside me as I died.